Neptune in 7th House synastry forms relationships based on a strong psychological interaction at a subconscious level. When positively aspected, a feeling of psycho-emotional sympathy and even love arises, which is expressed in complete mutual understanding and identical aspirations in all spheres of joint life, which relate mainly to cultural and creative activities.
However, Neptune in Seventh House synastry is not considered favorable for business and professional relationships since the “Neptunian” personality has a clearly embarrassing and psychologically disorienting effect on the personality of the Seventh House. Individuals in such a situation cannot be reliable partners capable of solving serious problems.
With the negativity of the aspect, everyone retires to their own closed world as psychological problems violate the harmony of the relationship. Deception and evasion, irresponsibility and insecurity rule both partners, undermining their belief in themselves and leading to an eventual collapse.
from F. Sakoyan, L. Ecker
Neptune in 7th House Synastry Explained
Synastry Neptune in 7th House is a difficult aspect, especially in family life. For example, if the wife’s Neptune falls into the husband’s Seventh House, then in a raw version of the relationship in their family scenes, the following dialogue may become a familiar refrain:
Husband: Why are you lying to me all the time?
Wife: Why do you hate me so much?
This dialogue is characterized by the fact that neither of the partners can give an answer to the questions: moreover, each of them does not understand the question of the other, which seems to be just a label; however, at times, partners feel a sense of pity for each other.
In general, synastry Neptune in 7th House gives you acute sensitivity to your partner’s lies, which does not mean at all the ability to instantly and correctly register them. But when you do you react very painfully, perceiving lying as an act of direct hostility (which your partner might not have intended: generally speaking, you can lie out of laziness, weakness, cowardice, out of habit, or in self-defense, not to mention many other reasons). However, such an acute sensitivity to the partner’s deceit is easily exaggerated: you can begin to suspect him or her of intentional lies and aggression, which, of course, will not improve your relationship.
The difficulty of synastry Neptune in Seventh House is that your partner will really let you down sometimes, even not meaning to. Misunderstandings are also very likely, and they affect your partner more than you. You must understand that you need to fight not so much with other people’s deceits, but with your own self. But when the relationship is established, you two can achieve a high level of mutual understanding and empathy, achieving extraordinarily beautiful meditations together.
from A. Podvodny
