The 11th House rotates around the idea of equality in friendship. This is teamwork with no boss or a clear goal for the team’s existence, but the roles are fixed to some extent and the team members cannot be arbitrarily moved or replaced. Thus, the group work of the Eleventh House takes place on a two-dimensional plane: firstly, the team has a specific subject of study but it does not exhaust the team’s goals which are unattainable at least in part.
To understand the 11th House, it is important to bear in mind its sacrifice expressed primarily in the subordination of your will and individuality to the group egregor (the Sun in the Eleventh House is in captivity). Consent and constructive work in a team are possible only with a significant sacrifice of all its members manifesting not only in the readiness to provide energy of all kinds but also in a significant restructuring of oneself if the assigned role requires it. On the other hand, the group gives each of its members an opportunity to connect to a common egregor, so the partners not only receive a sense of support and security but also get an invitation to enter the subtle world.
The synastric planets of your 11th House will show your friendly feelings for your partner (or their absence) and the signature bonds that arise when the two of you take part in group work without a clearly defined achievable goal.
The situation of the Eleventh House itself requires some tension because you have to adapt to your partner. Whether you do this or try to avoid this responsibility depends largely on your level of spiritual development. On the other hand, even if you tend to look for ways of cooperation, your reactions may not suit your partner, especially if he expects an intimate and personal relationship. Friendship presupposes mutual assistance, but at the same time, it is limited by an implied code beyond which the group egregor does not recommend moving as it often deprives the partners of its support in those areas.
As always, when interpreting the synastric planets of the Eleventh House, you must first consider its position and the level of development in your own natal chart. For example, if your 11th House is weak and underdeveloped, the partner’s synastric planets falling into it can cause you unpleasant feelings: you do not know how to be friends, and even the partner’s correct attempts to improve your relationship most likely will be completely misunderstood.
On the contrary, with a strong 11th House, a synastric planet falling into it can cause you a surge of friendly feelings and enthusiasm for a partner, and it is likely that the partner will suspect you of hidden selfishness or begin deciding how to pay you back. However, after a while, the partner may become disappointed in you when it turns out that you do not show a specific personal interest in him or her.