Moon in 7th House synastry is common in romantic and marital relationships. The strongest love emerges when the Moon coincides with the other person’s Descendant. Family life and bonds are important for this synastry while matrimony is considered necessary for the couple’s well-being. Both partners try hard to contribute their own family traditions to ensure their continuation in the new home.
Moon in the Seventh House synastry is marked by many ups and downs whose height and depth depend on the partners’ mood swings and emotional reactions to various stimuli. At the same time, this combination works in business partnerships as well, especially in a family business, as the partners usually understand and feel each other well. The personality of the Seventh House encourages and brightens the “Lunar” personality’s social activity, and the latter goes above and beyond in emotional support and establishing complete mutual understanding.
from F. Sakoyan, L. Ecker
Moon in 7th House Synastry Explained
With a synastry Moon in the 7th House, care and attention of your partner may seem unwarranted, excessive, and, most importantly, limiting your freedom and independence. An example of it is a child refusing to take the sandwiches that his mother made for her. While this may be a source of serious conflicts in childhood, later in life it may turn into something totally unbearable. Generally speaking, the Moon often uses care to disguise her behavioral programs aimed at enslaving and appropriating other people’s will; naturally, under synastry Moon in the Seventh House this will manifest very strongly, especially if the Moon is strong but not harmonious.
In this scenario, the partner will think that you are open to him or her and need their care and emotional support (which is true at least to some extent, regardless of what you think about it yourself). Hence, the partner will do what he or she can, so you protesting against their honest efforts will seem highly offensive. Alternatively, you can consume the partner’s care in a parasitic way, which will not make you happy.
The moon is a curving flower of gold,
The sky is still and blue;
The moon was made for the sky to hold,
And I for you.
Sarah Tisdale — “Tonight“
The karmic meaning of synastry Moon in the 7th House
The karmic meaning of the synastry Moon in the 7th House (for you) is in showing you your own egoism (on the one hand) and tender care for you (on the other). It is possible that you’ll transpose your self-pity onto your partner, caring for and pitying them through projecting your own pains and troubles onto them, regardless of how much of this they actually need. All in all, synastry Moon in the 7th House is a challenging aspect that requires a fair amount of psychoanalytical work, especially if the Moon, or the Seventh House, are disharmonious. On the bright side, working on improving this aspect allows one to become a truly caring and merciful person.
from A. Podvodny